Dr. Update....

Last week I had an appointment with our doctor. I had a regular "female" check up, which only if you are a female you know how amazingly FUN those are (totally sarcastic). My nurse was hilarious though and was telling jokes the entire time. I'm sure all of you women know the dr has to tell you to "scoot" down.....my nurse was telling me she used to work for a dr who would say this to his clients (ones he knew very well & knew it was a joke) "scoot down, if you feel my mustache you went to far" I started laughing so hard & I think it made Chris relax LOL. I also had a pelvic exam done and a basic ultra sound, just to make sure everything looked good, especially my "innards". I got a call on Monday saying that everything came back & looked GREAT!! So my doctor said now Chris and I have to do the hard work. I have come to the conclusion that our part really is the HARD part! It sucks having to wait and just wondering & questioning!! AARRRGGGHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!! :) I guess it will happen when it is right but if you have not been in this situation & you are fertile mertile you have no room to talk LOL

I do have one thing to say on my soap box & then peoples negativity will no longer affect me.

I was speaking with a "client" the other day (I'm not going to mention names or anything, because this person is not a regular of mine at the salon) This person was talking about somebody they knew who kept having miscarriages and was having problems getting pregnant (this person had no idea I've lost 2 - I chose not to tell this person my story after I heard her "opinion" on miscarriages)

FIRST OFF OPINIONS ARE OPINIONS & I AM FINE WITH THAT BUT THIS WAS MORE OF A STATEMENT THAT THIS PERSON HAD "PROOF OF" NOT AN OPINION!

This person proceeded to tell me that this lady who was having the miscarriages had to have been on many drugs & had to be an alcoholic because the only reason people lose babies is if they are killing them on their own free will (my blood is boiling at this point). She then proceeded to tell me that studies show miscarriages don't just "happen" the woman has to be doing drugs or consuming a great deal of alcohol to lose a baby during pregnancy. She just kept going on and on & me being the professional technician that I am couldn't tell the lady off & tell her there is the door out of the building don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya!!!!!

So here is my opinion (like I've said before you don't want to keep reading you can exit my blog right now :) ):

First let me say, I HAVE NEVER DONE DRUGS EVER!!!! None, not-a, zip-o!!!!! Also, let me add NEITHER HAS CHRIS!!! Yes I've been offered, not sure what teenager hasn't, but I opted to "Just Say No" Yes, I had friends who did drugs who opted to not be friends with me because I said no. I am proud of my decision to not do drugs & I will be able to tell my kids that I chose the healthy way to live my life.

Second I AM NOT AN ALCOHOLIC & NEITHER IS CHRIS!!! Yes I may have an occasional glass of wine with dinner but I am lucky if I have 10 drinks A YEAR! Yes I said A YEAR! Chris likes to have a beer to relax after a rough day on the job but we will buy a 6 pack of beer and it will last us 6 MONTHS! When we started trying to have a baby back in August 2010 I STOPPED DRINKING EVERYTHING! When I finally decided to take a break & new there was no chance of me getting/being pregnant I started having an occasional glass of wine. When we just started trying again October 2011 I STOPPED DRINKING!!!! So needless to say I'm not an alcoholic.

Please would someone explain to me with proof/evidence of what the hell that lady was talking about? I'm definitely confused......but I know deep down that she was just bat crazy!! God makes the decision to keep his angels or let us borrow one here on earth! :) So until God wants to give me an angel I'll just keep doing what i'm doing & stay healthy!

On another note, I have been learning a bunch of things that you can do/eliminate while trying to get pregnant that sure as heck can't hurt trying to get pregnant. Things I didn't know....

Sorry if I "hurt" someones feelings but like I've said before this is MY blog NOT YOURS!

Loves! :-)

Maggie